Do you think there may be something ‘missing’ in your life? Or maybe you aren’t really showing up for yourself in the ways you know you could. You’re feeling fed up with yourself and maybe you’ve even developed some habits you know aren’t serving you. That can all change.

Many of us feel stuck, destined to fail, confused, lost or even broken. I’m here to remind you that you may FEEL those things, but you inherently are NOT actually those things.

Even if you do not choose me as your coach- just being here means something.

You are brave and I see you stepping up to make a change in your life. You know that there is a way out of how you see yourself. There are stories you have been clinging onto and you’re ready to let them go. You know there is MORE than what you see.

Coaching with me doesn’t mean swimming around in the past. Although the past is relevant to many of the feelings and inactions we take- I’m here to help you face forward!  Let’s take what we learn from our past- and have that help project us into our ever abundant future!

Whether it’s getting your business off the ground, breaking old habits, feeling connected to a body you love, rediscovering what you want in life and connecting with your authentic self- coaching with me can help get you there!

Meet Your Coach

My name is Aydian Dowling and I’ve been in your shoes. Feeling like I have a place in this world but being completely lost as to where that place is. Until I decided to do something about it. With the help of my own coaches, mentors and personal studies I have created a life I love. I have created a partnership with my Wife, a Family I am proud of, and a cause I am willing to fight for.

The last 10 Years I have dedicated to strengthening my body, my mind, and taking the necessary steps to living Authentically ME!

As a Transgender Activist, Educator, and Model I have been on both the dark side of fitness and the lighter side. I have battled Disordered Eating, and won. I have achieved the physical body I thought I wanted and realized that doesn’t make you as happy as you think. I have broken through the disbelief that I am unworthy of happiness. I have challenged the status quo of what it means to be a Man in the world, and in the same time challenged and changed my own beliefs of what makes a man.

I didn’t know I could be the man I always dreamed of without living up to society’s standards. I didn’t know I could be healthy and love my body without being restricting in my food and life.

That’s why I’ve dedicated my life to helping others break through their own limiting self-beliefs and become the authentic person they have always dreamed of.

Structure & Pricing-  One-on-One Life & Fitness Coaching

  • Weekly 30 min sessions (first session 60 mins)
  • Monthly Payments made via Trainerize App, PayPal or Venmo
  • $299 every Month with no contracts (1 yr = 48 weeks)



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